Sledding at Centennial

This past Saturday me and Tamara took Dylan & Megan up to Centennial Park to go sliding down the hills there. Tamara had bought one of those surf board style sleds and we figured the hills at the park were the best place to try it out.

Well, we got there and tried the first hill and realistically, the sled sucked on that hill. Dylan was less than enthused about it but once we hit the side hill (near the skating rink downward), he really seemed to enjoy it. Funny thing was, he was more interested in playing in the snow, and going on the “slide” in the playground, then sliding down the hill.

No worries though. We still got out and enjoyed the afternoon in the snow and he had a blast. More days to come I am sure.

He got a new bed

Today marked a huge change for Dylan. Last night he went over to Tamara’s mom’s for the night and when he got home today, he found a surprise in his bedroom.

See, since he was born, he’s been in his crib. Quite a few months ago, we took the front rail off his crib and put a small rail on it but he was able to climb in and out of it on his own. Ultimately though, it was still a crib.

Me and Tamara saw the Spiderman bed set at Walmart and we knew Dylan would love it. Tamara got this twin bed for $20 off Kijiji and when Dylan went to his nanny’s for the night, we put it together and rearranged his room.

When he got home today, he was a bit upset but that was just because he was tired but once he settled down, I told him we had a big surprise for him and if he came with daddy, he could see it.

He walked into his room and never even saw the bed at first. He was more captivated by a very large poster of this on his wall. I had asked him about it quite awhile ago and he really liked it so we put it up on his wall. He kept saying “Mushrooms!!!”. But then  when he turned around and saw his bed, he was just overjoyed.

He got up on it and he kept jumping and smiling and talking about his new “Spiderman bed!!!!”. I don’t think I ever saw him THAT excited over anything. He had a huge smile on his face for the rest of the night and when it came time to go to bed, he was so excited to be sleeping in his new bed. He definitely is growing up fast.

Some interesting things

Here’s a few noteworthy things that have happened with Dylan lately:

  • At our birthday supper, Tamara told Dylan to “blow” when it was time for us to blow the candles out and he proceeded to “blow” but with his nose.
  • Sat down beside one of the Santa’s under the tree and proceeded to tell him that he wanted a Spiderman present for Christmas
  • Learned how to say “fucken” by hearing his father swear a few too many times. I have since curved my language.
  • Has decided that at least for this month, his name is not Dylan, but Dylananananananan.
  • Has started giving his sisters hugs when she’s upset

I never knew how cute kids could be til I had my own.

Someone isn’t liking the whole “share” experience

Ahhhh the fun that is growing up for almost two years by yourself.

Dylan is now a little over 2 years old. He’s become quite attached to his toys and pretty much anything that he plays with he tends to claim as his own. However, with Megan getting a little older now, she’s able to move and latch onto things that Dylan typically plays with. This is a concern for him as I think he thinks she’s trying to take his stuff away from him.

Pretty much anything she grabs that he thinks is his causes him to have a little bit of a fit. Nothing major, just a bit of whining and crying and pointing to whatever Megan has. If he’s playing with a truck and she grabs his blocks, he gets mad because she’s playing with HIS blocks. Me and Tamara have done our best to let him know that he needs to share and that if he’s not playing with something, other people are allowed to play with his toys.

We’ve seen the same thing with him and his cousin Lucas. Lucas goes to play with one of Dylan’s toys and D gets upset. Funny thing is that he doesn’t get upset over everything, just some toys and it’s not necessarily the same toys all the time. Regardless, Dylan is learning all about sharing and I don’t think he’s happy about it.

The bright side is that before you know it, he’ll be used to sharing and it won’t be that big a deal. We have told him that there are some toys he doesn’t have to share if he doesn’t want to. it only seems right that he should be able to set a few boundaries of his own so that he can have some things just to himself.

Speaking of “self”, this is one of D’s favorite words of late. He wants to do everything himself. Brushing his teeth, washing his hair, climbing into his carseat or table chair. You name it, he just keeps saying “self self”. It’s very interesting to see how independent a 2 year old can really be.

The perils of a new sitter

For the last year, Dylan has been going to the same daytime babysitter. We chose not to enroll in regular daycare as Tamara was going to be home part time and we wanted them to not spend all of their days in daycare.We had one sitter bail on us several months in but then we found a new sitter that came highly recommended. Her kids and Dylan worked out very well and we were happy with her for the last year.

However, times change and she decided to go work full time and had to stop taking Dylan. This of course was a big disappointment to us, me moreso than Tamara, but there was nothing we could do about it so the search for a new sitter began.

Tamara dug around and we found a new one who has a little girl about 2 1/2 and they seem very nice. Dylan started going there yesterday and today is day two. I have to say that I am feeling a little uneasy about the situation. I tend to pay close attention to how Dyaln is and he’s been a little extra “sooky” lately and I’m not sure if it has to do with the sitter change, or if he’s getting a little sick (since it is in the house right now). It’s hard to know whether or not his need for extra attention stems from the change in sitter situation or from something else.

I find it very hard to deal with the idea of leaving my kids with someone I barely even know. I mean how do I know she’s not a closet axe-murderer or something? I don’t. I just have to trust my gut and hope that all is well. Right now, something feels a bit off but I can’t say for certain that it’s the sitter. I know that I need to wait a little while, watch Dylan and make sure he’s ok, and that if he seems fine after a little while, it’s just parent paranoia. If his behavior still seems a bit off, then maybe we need to look at the sitter situation.

It sucks. I don’t like seeing him upset at all but I know that kids like routine and changes to it can be hard. Hell, changes to MY routine are hard.

The little bugger ratted me out!!!

Well this morning me and Tamara got a huge friggin’ laugh at Dylan. He had has socks out and Tamara was asking him where the socks go. He looks at her and says “fan” as he points at the ceiling. She of course was expecting him to say something like feet or toes. Instead he says “fan”. I gave him this look and then I smiled. Here’s why.

Last night Tamara was out and me and Dylan were in the living room. He took his socks off and was talking about his socks. I asked him if he wanted to see something funny with them and he nodded. I then turned the ceiling fan on and told Dylan that this was to be a little secret between me and him. He smiled and agreed. I then proceeded to throw his socks into the fan to see where they would end up. He laughed and we did it several more times. Each time they flew out of the fan, he got up and retrieved the sock and said “more”. We did it a few times then it was all done.

So this morning he then proceeds to tell his mom that his socks belong in the fan, thereby letting the cat out of the bag that we were being a little mischievous the night before :) Despite having my cover blown, it didn’t matter because I laughed so hard at him telling his mom where the socks should go :)

It didn’t last :(

Supernanny would probably scold me and Tamara for going back on cutting him off, but we did. Dylan has his soothers again.

It started basically when we realized he was getting sick (along with the rest of the house it would seem). We knew that between the stress of having been away recently, and getting sick, the removal of his “dooden’s” probably wasn’t helping. So, me and Tamara decided to let him have ONE of his good soothers, and let him keep the other “broken” ones. The deal for him was that he needed to know that he could ONLY have his soothers when it was time to sleep.

So what we have done is made sure that as soon as he wakes up and leaves his bed, we take his soothers and put them out of sight and out of mind. If he has a fit, we tell him he can’t have them unless it’s sleep time because they might “break” like the other ones did. It seems to be working.

We both agreed that the soothers are harmless and that perhaps after he gets back from staying with mom for a week (while we’re away) and he’s back to his normal self, maybe we can try taking them away again.

I’m sure some folks would say that it’s bad parenting to take something away and then give it back under pressure from him. Fact is, we’re choosing to fight that battle another day when things are a little less stressful for the guy. It’s not like he’s going to have a soother when he’s a teenager :)

Dooden, broke! Dooden, broke!!! More dooden??!?!

Dooden = soother = pacifier.

Ever since we took the rail off Dylan’s bed and he can climb in and out of it on his own, he’s been a bit more obsessed/reliant on using his soothers. We leave them in his bed and he knows that they are to remain there. So once he had clear access to them, everytime something happened that he didn’t like, he would retreat to his bed for his soother. We didn’t like the idea of him becoming SO dependent on them so we pulled the plug on them last night.

I took two of his soothers and cut holes in the tips of them. This effectively negates the “sucking” he does. I put them in his bed and when he went to get one, he started to panic. The headline says it all. He got REALLY worked up and kept saying that his dooden was broke. We told him that they were really old and that old things can sometimes break. He had a hard time with it and did eventually fall asleep but not until having a couple of minor meltdowns beforehand. He also woke up several times in the middle of the night which is something he typically doesn’t do.

We know it doesn’t hurt him but he was becoming too reliant on them so we decided to take them away for now. Once he was up and around this morning he was fine. Tonite we’ll see how he does again. I’m sure that by the time the weekend is over, he’ll be fine. We hope. :)

Happy Birthday Super D – Updates

Our wonderful little boy is 2 today. It’s hard for me to imagine. I have very mixed feelings. I never understood why women got all emotional over their children’s birthdays and here I am doing it myself, and I still don’t get it. I am so very proud of the little boy that he is, but so sad that he seems to be growing up so quickly.

It’s been awhile since I have done a post, so I’m going to go back a few months.

About March of this year, he finally started talking. When I say talking, I mean saying one word at a time. After this started, he started to develop by leaps and bounds. It’s very interesting to see him take a word and associate it with something. He started with one word or the last syllable of a word or sentence. Ie: If I said YMCA, he would say A. If it was Nanny, he would say Ny. He got the easy words like milk or bath. Then he started putting two syllables together, next came two one syllable words. Now he will put 4 and 5 syllables together. He is very entertaining. He says words that are easy to confuse, like marshmallow and mushroom. In my opinion, he’s pretty easy to understand. If I’m not sure what he’s saying, all I have to do is look around and see what sounds like he’s saying or ask him to show me with his hands and I can figure it out. Last night we were sitting at the table and he started pointing and saying “ite”. We weren’t sure what it was that he was looking at until he pointed to the pop bottle sitting there and we guessed it was the Sprite bottle he was after. It makes it very nice that he can communicate with us a little easier. Here is a list of some of the words he says in his own way:
Pish = Fish
Dooden = soother (this is one thing that he picked his own name for, so now we call it his dooden, too)
Wawer = water
Puice = juice
Seral = Cereal
He has a hard time with his F’s, g’s, and l’s.

He also discovered the word “NO”. Now at first it wasn’t just no, it was NNnnnoooooooooo with a big whine sound to so along with it. For the first few days, it was only when he meant it. Then he changed and said it with everything. At least now, when I ask him a question, I can get him to tell me yes or no. If he says no to something I ask, and he then changes his mind, he has to suffer the consequence of not getting what I offered. Hopefully this will ease off on the no’s some.

He’s started to use the potty. He’s peed several times in the potty and pooped once. He likes the novelty of flushing, but has to decide to be a bit more consistent with telling us when he has to go. It will be awhile yet before he’s trained but I’m not in a big hurry and I won’t pressure him. It will happen when he’s good and ready.

He loves daddy’s guitar and always wants him to take it out and play it. Well today, he got his own for his birthday and it certainly was a hit. He even let Lucas share it with him.

He’s not a big eater, but according to the Dr., he has grown. He was just over 24 lbs today at his check up. Still on the small side but nothing to worry about.

He has an obsession with pouring. It doesn’t matter if it is water, food, toys, or a beverage, he wants to pour anything he can from one container to another.

He loves his books and will sit and read them to himself when he needs to wind down. He will look at a book, say a word thats on the page and then turn it to the next page and go throught the whole book like that. He gets a story time just about every night and always makes sure he asks for it. He get fixated on a certain story and wants us to read it to him every night. Right now it’s his chickens arn’t the only ones book. He will ask for ‘chicken?’. and go get the book and bring it right to us.

We just took the front off of his crib and put a rail up to make it into a toddler bed. He was super excited and just wanted to jump all around his bed. He hasn’t been able to crawl out yet, but we figured it was time for a bigger boy bed.

He’s a very smart and polite little boy. We are very blessed to have this wonderful little guy in our lives.

My two year old boy

Today, my son woke up and got out of bed for the first time as a full fledges two year old boy. It is very hard for me to fathom that two years has gone by already. Wow. Where has the time gone? When other people have said that time goes by even faster when you have kids I always chuckled but now I know it to be very true.

To celebrate his birthday, he had his cousin and uncle over, both his grandmothers and his great-grandmother, and chowed down on some cake and ice cream. He was very happy to open up one of his gifts and find his own little guitar inside a box. He’s been playing with me and mine now for awhile and he really likes it so we decided to get him his own. Not a toy guitar but a real one. He played it almost non-stop after he got it open.

He’s no longer in a “crib” as we removed the rail off it and placed a small guard on it. He now can walk up a little stool and get into his bed himself. He really is growing up.

I’m not sure what else to say other than that everyday he amazes me and that for only two years old, he seems SO smart. Some days he can be difficult, but we all have days like that. Regardless, he’s a little mini-me and I love him to pieces. I wonder how he’ll surprise me in the next two years.